
Working with your mentor
As a longtime resident of Minneapolis-St. Paul, I have been connected to Capella since its inception in one way or another, finally becoming an employee in early 2006. Since I hold a PhD in adult education, I have been especially aware of Capella’s commitment to employ the best practices of adult learning.
Capella has been a trend setter in many aspects of doctoral study. The mentoring and advising models in Capella’s doctoral program are especially unique. At my alma mater – the University of Minnesota – my advisor was not only the individual who guided me through the processes and procedures but was also my primary academic contact. At Capella, we split that traditional role in two, with the mentor being the primary academic guide for learners once they reach the independent research stage of their programs.
My role as a doctoral adviser is quite varied, but I spend a significant amount of time coaching learners on how to work with their mentors. For many learners, the working relationship with their mentors is strong. They quickly establish mutual trust and respect. They communicate well with each other and respond to other’s messages and calls in a timely manner.
Unfortunately, the association between some learners and their mentors never manages to achieve the level of professionalism required for completion of a doctoral program. Sometimes, a once good relationship begins to deteriorate.
The most critical advice I give my new advisees when they are assigned to me following the completion of their coursework is stressing the importance of developing a strong working relationship with their mentors. This means clearly communicating with one’s mentor, along with accepting constructive feedback and being willing to revise and rewrite until each aspect of the dissertation meets academic standards and expectations. I tell them that their mentor will be approving their work at each step along the way and their ability to work together is a major determinant whether or not they will complete their programs. I tell learners that doctoral work puts many reputations on the line – that of the mentor, committee, dean, Capella and certainly theirs – and that striving to produce a dissertation that they – and we – can be proud of should be their goal.
Too often, learners take constructive criticism personally. Many of us do attach an emotional component to feedback, but it is important to separate feelings from critique and look at advice as critically and objectively as possible. I have never worked with a mentor at Capella who did not have the best interests of learners at heart. In my opinion, direct, constructive feedback, regardless of how harsh it may appear to be, is intended to help, not hurt.
It has been nearly 18 years since I successfully defended my dissertation. Following that, my mentor and I celebrated and soon I graduated. While we no longer have weekly contact, we have managed to keep in touch through the years and I often tell her how much I appreciated the guidance and support she gave me. I wish for each and every Capella learner the same experience – to look back fondly at the bond and mutual respect that can – and should – develop between learner and mentor.
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October 2nd, 2008 at 10:51 am
Mark, you have raised a point that I believe speaks to the heart of why learners may not complete their programs. One of the competencies Capella asks learners to develop and fine-tune is that of the professional communicator. Learners are asked to manage all communications with others in a professional manner, paying attention to the fact that PhD’s are simply held to a higher standard than most of the population.
I firmly believe that a large piece of developing as a strong professional communicator is that of completely objective self-assessment: can I look at myself (skills, attributes, weaknesses, etc) with no emotional component (i.e. objectively)? If I cannot i may struggle with the feedback I receive from many aspects of life. Further, if I can identify this as a challenge area for myself, how can I turn it into a strength? The ability to reflect, thus, becomes key in the pursuit of an advanced degree.
Thanks for sharing your experiences!
September 10th, 2009 at 9:44 am
Thank you, Mark.
While my comment here is far removed in time from your original post, my guess is others review the “archives,” as I am doing now.
One thing I often tell my patients is, “Be wary of expecting any one person to meet all your wants and needs.” Even if they are all legitimate, there will not likely be one person who is the end-all, be-all, even a spouse or significant other.
With respect to the doctoral mentor/chair individuals may need to assess their own needs for guidance and support, as well as their own personality and communication styles vis-à-vis their mentor. It would grand if all mentor–protégé relationships were a good fit, but this may not be the case.
Some of the things I have done to fill my own needs are avail myself to an ABD email list, participate in a dissertation coaching group, set up a weekly conference call with other ABD-ers, and so forth. This may not be the ideal scenario. It has helped me significantly. Perhaps these ideas will help others.