That sentiment resonates with many doctoral learners–especially in the dissertation process. The doctoral journey is not easy. That’s why only a portion of the population has a Ph.D. (I’m reminded of that TV commercial for the Marines but with a twist: “the few, the proud, the Ph.D.”)

The Ph.D. journey comprises a path riddled with bumps, barricades and detours. Yet, the learner also encounters times when the path is free from these points of delay. Staying the course, though, requires intentional commitment.

I’m reminded of the concert maestra, Antonia Brico, who led a concert with the Berlin Philharmonic Orchestra as early as 1930. She was determined to fulfill her destiny as a concert conductor in a male-dominated profession and often said to herself, “I will not be deflected from my course.”

It took me two years to write my dissertation–experiencing many steps forward and backward. Thus, is the nature of the process. I returned to Brico many times when I felt like ending my journey. Brico inspired me to not be deflected from my course.

I encourage anyone who feels like wanting to end the doctoral journey to reach out to your support systems—family, friends, colleagues, your mentor, and your doctoral advisor.

After five years of going to school part-time, I earned the PhD. It took pit-bull determination and commitment. I also didn’t have much of a social life. Embrace your fear – don’t fight it – because it likely will help you to be motivated, to wisely structure your time, and to do the best you can and submit your best work.

Was it worth it? Absolutely.